Updated: Jun 8
Reflecting on Relationships and Student Success
In the quiet serenity of my classroom, I fondly recall a candid conversation with a former student of mine, now gainfully employed, who was navigating the challenges of adult life. It was during one of her many visits that she opened up about the highs and lows of managing work, responsibilities, and daily mood swings at her job.
The Joy and Challenges of Transitioning from School to Work
Despite the regular friendly drop-ins she made to my classroom, this was the first time we had ventured into a deep conversation about life after high school. I eagerly engaged her, exploring her journey since high school and the obstacles she faced.
The Metrics of Success in Special Education
As a special education teacher, my relationships with my former students is a personal gauge of success. The harsh reality for many students with disabilities is that they face grimmer prospects than their general education peers, often struggling with employment and stable relationships in adulthood. This stark reality underscores the importance and urgency of my role as their educator.
Honoring Student Voices
To cultivate strong relationships with my students, I prioritize and honor their voices. Recognizing their individual worth and engaging them in their interests allows me to become an influential figure in their lives. While academic content is vital, my role as a special education teacher provides me the unique opportunity to focus on building relationships, goal-setting, and connecting students with valuable resources, rather than strictly concentrating on rote learning and content acquisition.
A Classroom That Reflects Its Students
I implement various approaches to honor the student's voice, including displaying their artwork, celebrating their achievements, and allowing them to share their hobbies and interests. To amplify their involvement, I design the structure of the classroom based on their feedback, ensuring it's a place that mirrors their identities, accomplishments, and passions.
Celebrating Remarkable Results
The outcome of this student-centered approach has been astounding: increased attendance, an abundance of course completion certificates adorning the walls, and the sheer joy of students and their families. The testament to this success also comes from parents who have seen their children bloom since graduating from our program.
Building Trust, Encouraging Growth
The ultimate aim of my work is to form transformative relationships with my students, fostering a sense of trust that allows us to collaborate towards building their future. This process requires consistency, patience, and a genuine appreciation for each child's individuality.
Preparing Students for the Future
In my last interaction with my former student, we delved into discussions about her employer's tuition reimbursement program and other benefits. Although the concept of retirement seemed far-fetched to her, we made a pact to revisit it in our future interactions.
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About the author
Sean G. McCormick founded Executive Function Specialists, an online coaching business that guides middle, high school, and college students in overcoming procrastination, disorganization, and anxiety by teaching time management, prioritization, and communication skills so they feel motivated, prepared, and empowered. He trains educators, parents, and other professionals to support students with ADHD and executive function challenges through his courses in the Executive Function Coaching Academy.
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