Last Updated: September 5, 2024
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In this article, I'll teach you what a Family Team Meeting (FTM) is and how you can use it to improve your student's executive function skills.
As a loving guardian, your heart yearns to see your child thrive, and sometimes the journey can be overwhelming.
If you're reading this, chances are you might be looking into Executive Function coaching for your child, expecting it to be the magic wand that clears away the challenges.
But let me assure you, as someone deeply vested in the well-being of your child, there is something even more potent – a Family Team Meeting (FTM).
I understand the skepticism – why should a meeting make a difference?
After all, the coach your hired is the expert. You've been to plenty of IEP meetings in the past, and perhaps, they've been more focused on ritual and paperwork, rather than hearing your input.
But here is the truth -- a Family Team Meeting is not just 'another meeting'. It’s a confluence of commitment and collaboration from everyone who holds a piece of your child’s world.
Your child is an intricate puzzle, and this gathering of minds and hearts, which includes you, can unlock the real change.
It’s not just about fixing what’s 'wrong', it’s about nurturing what’s right and setting a path for growth.
This blog will walk you through what an FTM entails and how it taps into the proven power of collective efficacy - one of the highest-ranking factors for student achievement according to renowned education researcher John Hattie.
You are an irreplaceable part of this collective. With you on board, the chances of your child’s progress skyrocket.
As you read on, you'll learn the simple but impactful agenda of an FTM and how it is structured to bring the best for your child.
Yes, the process may have its challenges. Emotional moments, scheduling hiccups, or disengagement may crop up, but this guide also arms you with effective solutions for these.
So, let’s embark on this journey with an open heart and a determined spirit.
Because, dear parent, your participation could be the very catalyst that transforms the landscape of your child’s future.
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What is a Family Team Meeting?
A Family Team Meeting (FTM) is a structured gathering that brings together family members, as well as other key stakeholders and support persons involved in a child’s or family's well-being, to collaborate on decision-making, planning, and problem-solving.
The focus of an FTM can vary depending on the circumstances and may address issues such as a child’s educational needs, health, behavioral issues, or family challenges.
What does research tell us about Family Team Meetings?
According to John Hattie's research, collective teacher efficacy is one of the top factors for increasing student achievement.
With an effect size of 1.57, it ranks extremely high among various influences on educational outcomes. (Hattie, J. (2015). What works best in education: The politics of collaborative expertise. Pearson).
By bringing teachers together with families and other stakeholders, and harnessing their shared belief in their collective ability to make a positive impact, FTMs benefit from one of the most powerful factors in education.
This collaborative approach, drawing on the principles of collective teacher efficacy, can be a driving force in supporting and enhancing a child’s educational achievements and overall development.
Who should join for an FTM?
For an effective FTM, it's essential to include the parents or guardians, members of the coaching team, and any other individuals who are directly involved in serving the student on a week-to-week basis.
Must be there:
Parents
Student
Executive Function coach
It would be great to invite:
Therapist
School case manager
Advocate
Other team supports
This could encompass tutors, therapists, or special education professionals who are actively engaged with the student.
It's important for parents to be mindful of the potential costs associated with including certain professionals in the meeting, especially if they are paying out of pocket for services. Balancing the value of the input from professionals with the financial considerations is key in assembling a focused and productive FTM group.
What is the agenda of an FTM?
What's Going Well?
Ask each participant to share something positive or a success, no matter how small.
This sets a positive tone and acknowledges efforts and progress.
What Needs to Change?
Facilitate a discussion where participants can express concerns or areas that need improvement.
Focus on constructive feedback and encourage solutions-focused thinking.
Who Does What by When?
Work together to develop action steps for making the necessary changes.
Assign specific responsibilities to each participant and set clear deadlines.
Ensure that the responsibilities and deadlines are realistic and agreed upon by all.
What challenges may come up throughout the FTM process?
Family Team Meetings (FTMs) can encounter various challenges, including emotional outbursts, disengagement, and scheduling difficulties. Here’s how to address some common challenges:
1. Parent Venting During "What's Going Well" Segment
Challenge:
A parent may start venting or focusing on negatives during the time designated for sharing positive developments.
Solution
The facilitator can gently interrupt and remind the parent of the purpose of this segment. Acknowledge the parent’s concerns and assure them that there will be a time to discuss challenges later in the meeting.
For example, the facilitator could say, "I understand that you have concerns, and it's important that we hear them. Right now, we're focusing on positive developments. We will address concerns in the next segment."
2. Parent Becoming Frustrated and Yelling:
Challenge
A parent may become emotionally overwhelmed and start yelling or showing frustration.
Solution
The facilitator should remain calm and employ de-escalation techniques. It might be helpful to take a short break to allow the parent to calm down. After the break, acknowledge the parent’s emotions and encourage them to express their concerns in a constructive manner. Set clear expectations for respectful communication.
3. Parent Not Engaging or Making Scheduling Difficult
Challenge
A parent may be unresponsive, reluctant to engage, or consistently making scheduling difficult.
Solution
For scheduling, offer flexibility and multiple options for meeting times. If a parent is disengaged during the meeting, try to understand the root cause. It might be due to feeling overwhelmed, unheard, or unsure of how to contribute.
The facilitator can engage the parent by asking open-ended questions and encouraging their input. Also, providing a welcoming and non-judgmental atmosphere can help in increasing engagement.
Remember
FTMs can be emotionally charged, and parents might be dealing with various stressors. Patience, empathy, and clear communication are key in navigating these challenges. Additionally, having a skilled facilitator who can guide the meeting and manage dynamics is crucial for the effectiveness of FTMs.
What's next?
As you embrace the profound impact Family Team Meetings can have, it's essential to actively participate in this transformative process.
Start by reaching out to your child's school or involved stakeholders to set up an FTM. Stay engaged, and bring your insights, while remaining open to collaboration and feedback. It's through collective effort that we can accomplish the most.
Keep yourself informed about the goals and action plans developed in the FTM and offer your unwavering support at home. Don't forget to celebrate even the smallest milestones; your encouragement is your child’s driving force.
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Hope this helps 🤙🏻
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About Me
Hey! I'm Sean 👋
I'm a former public school special education teacher who realized that executive function skills are more important than knowing when George Washington crossed the Potomac.
Since then, I've made it my mission to teach anyone who will listen about how to develop these key life skills.
In 2020, I founded Executive Function Specialists to ensure all students with ADHD and Autism have access to high-quality online executive function coaching services. We offer online EF coaching and courses to help students and families.
Realizing I could only reach so many people through coaching, in 2021 I started the Executive Function Coaching Academy which trains schools, educators, and individuals to learn the key strategies to improve executive function skills for students.
In 2023, I co-founded of UpSkill Specialists, to provide neurodivergent adults with high-quality executive function coaching services.
When not pursuing my passions through work, I love spending time with my family, getting exercise, and expanding my brain through reading. You can connect with me on LinkedIn.
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